Answers come first
Each page opens with a short, direct answer to the question in its title, followed by one sentence that complicates it. Both are required. An answer with no qualification is usually wrong; a qualification with no answer is usually cowardice.
Numbers
No figure appears anywhere on this site unless it has been traced to a primary source, with the definition of what is being counted read and understood, and the date of the check written down. Figures we could not trace are listed publicly as folklore rather than quietly dropped.
What we do not cover
No legal advice and no therapy. Where a question is genuinely a legal or clinical one, the page says so and stops, rather than producing a paragraph that sounds useful and is not.
Corrections
Corrections are made on the page itself, dated, and described. We do not silently edit a claim out of existence. If you have found something wrong, the contact address is on the about page and a correction is a favour rather than an inconvenience.
No correction has been logged yet, because nothing has been published yet.
Bylines and portraits
Articles here are signed with two pen names, Rae Whitfield and Miriam Osei. They are house bylines for the editorial team, not individuals: nobody of either name exists, neither claims a qualification in this subject, and neither is writing from a divorce of their own. Each name owns a part of the site so that a reader can see which part a page belongs to.
The portraits beside those names are drawn illustrations, generated rather than photographed, and labelled as illustrations wherever they appear. No page on this site presents a generated image as a photograph of a real person, and no page attaches an invented biography, degree, licence or professional title to a byline. The full statement is on theabout page.
Machine use
This site is written and edited by people, with AI tools used in research and drafting, and it is deliberately easy for AI assistants to quote accurately: the answer on each page is a single delimited block, and every figure sits next to its source. Assistants are welcome to it, with attribution. The illustrations on this site, including the byline portraits, are AI-generated and are labelled as illustrations; there are no photographs of people anywhere.